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writes:Do u girl's love your guy's cuming in your mouth? because my girl give's good head i will admit but because it's so good i take longer to cum and she get's bored so quick and stop's. i asked her the other night if i could jerk off and cum in her mouth she said " do u have to " i was shocked but it's not the first time.p.s i go down on her nearly every night and she take's 20 mintures to cum and i don't stop once unless i need air. do u think i sould say if u don't give me what i need i will not give you what u need? Reply to this Question
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reader, Green +, writes (16 November 2006):
When I met my last girlfriend, she didn't like giving them at all. When she did however, I never forced her down and always let her do what she wanted down there for however long she wanted. I kept complimenting her too. I kept reinforcing the fact that it felt great (even when it didn't). I even said, it's ok if I don't cum because I love ANY attention, even short bursts. Well, that totally empowered her. She stayed there longer and longer and enjoyed it more and more because there was absolutely no pressure to perform. Yes, you have to be very patient in the beginning, but it's well worth it in the end.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 November 2006): I don't like when I'm asked to give a bj or if you can cum in my mouth, I want to do it when I want to do it. After blowing someone for awhile your jaws do get very tired, so maybe try fingering her or playing with her nipples while she's doing it. Arouse her at the same time and it takes her mind off of the pain in her jaw and she will get more into the bj.
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (16 November 2006):
 I feel for you, but I feel for her too. Being a lady, I can tell you that sometimes giving blow jobs just isn't the most thrilling thing ever. My jaw starts to hurt after awhile, or if he's taking forever I find myself thinking "God, will you HURRY UP?!?"... so I can see how she's get bored.
Also, I'm not too fond of the taste of cum, it sort of grosses me out. So if she's not too crazy about getting it in her mouth either, I can understand.
A good solution might be to have her go down on you for five minutes, then have sex for ten, then go back to oral for another five, etc., etc. It's a lot easier on the jaw and doesn't get boring!
One more idea - how long does it take you to have an orgasm? If it's 20 minutes or under, perhaps a 69? Then EVERYBODY is happy.
Good luck,
xxIndia
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reader, xxxsoulsistaxxx +, writes (16 November 2006):
 You can't force her to do something she doesn't want to. If she isn't comfortable with you coming in her mouth then don't pressure her. I know you like to give her oral and that's all very good, but making love is not a swap shop: you give, yes, but not just to receive.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 November 2006): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni will admit blow jobs can be boring but i'm not that big and she's had 5 lad's before we got together and she told me many time's she went down on them all the time. all because enjoy them going down on her. i'm the only one she like's in between her leg's.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 November 2006): U should say something like that- more subtle though. I know how she feels though my bf is pretty big and blow jobs can get really uncomfortable and my jaw starts to hurt, but if she just gets bored then maybe she should be listening to some music she really likes or something. I hate to say it, but blow jobs can be really boring.
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