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anonymous
writes:I have been in my current relationship now for nearly 6 years. We got together when we were 16 years old. We are now at different universities, have completely different lives and all we seem to do is argue. I nag him all the time to be more affectionate, more loving, more anything! But he can't. We hardly ever have sex (he doesn't seem to mind this) anymore and there are many issues we are trying to get over. (I say we, it's just me really). For example, I had an ectopic pregnancy (by him), during my recovery, I asked him to stay with me for the night, he refused, went to his friends party and slept with someone else. I don't know what to do because we've been together for so long. I'm so confused. Should we break up? Reply to this Question
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reader, rcn  +, writes (10 September 2007):
 Time to end it. I know having a relationship for that time, and starting at 16 will be hard to make a change. Remember at 16 you're both developing, mental changes and beliefs change with the puberty. I think you have both grown during those changes in separate directions.
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reader, faith scott boreanaz +, writes (9 September 2007):
 If i was you i would break up with him, the fact that his cheated on you and chosen a friends party over you is in my books really bad. You deserve better, No matter how long you've been together perhaps breaking up will be better for the future. all the best, Faith.
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