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*eccamega
writes:I got dumped by text and cheated on. Then for some dumb reason everyone took my exes side. Then I ran into the two faced sheep and they ignored me. Why should I do the right thing? They all betrayed me. What makes them think that it won't happen to them one day? Just because they have a wedding ring on their finger, so what? I hope they all lie and cheat on each other. Why should I do the right thing and keep my mouth shut? Everyone says it would rub them the wrong way. Well guess what? So was being dumped by text and cheated on. Then dumped by a whole group of people.
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reader, meccamega +, writes (16 November 2011):
meccamega is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThankyou
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (15 November 2011):
 so if these people like a cheat who dumped you by text why do you care what they think?
as for the right thing...
live well it's the best revenge.
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reader, meccamega +, writes (15 November 2011):
meccamega is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell do much for "nobody likes a cheat". These people do and still stuck by him.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (14 November 2011):
 I'm sorry that is just harsh and immature to dump someone by text.
But look at it this way, IF this is how they act when it comes down to crunch time, are they really people you WANT in your life? Karma will come by sooner or later.
Time for you to lift your chin up and move on. Let them all play in the mud without you. You got bigger and better things to do, right?
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (13 November 2011):
I can understand that you must be very hurt over this. I myself was cheated on (though not dumped by text), so I can see that you will be angry and you'll want to get back at them.
But, here's the thing. You're wanting to get back at them is actually dangerous for your own reputation and your own state of mind. Oh yes, it'll rub those people up the wrong way. But people from the outside won't see it that way. They'll see a man who cheated, but they'll then see a woman running around pointing fingers, trying to get revenge - and it'll basically make you look desperate and unable to handle it.
You need to block these people from your life and move on. Don't bother looking for revenge, don't bother going around pointing fingers, or it'll even worse for you because no one likes a cheat, but they'll like a cheat more then someone who goes around pointing the cheat out all the time.
Be strong, take real time getting over what happened and meet some better people elsewhere. You don't need these people in your life, and you don't need the hassle that they can bring.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 November 2011): You poor thing, no wonder your angry!
Well rid of a man thats too gutless to approach you face to face and it sounds to me like your so called friends may have had a hand in him dumping you anyway.
If I was you I would blank the lot of them,make a few dolls n stick pins in them...(after you have told them they are a bunch of hypocrites maybe).
Then leave them all to it - being happy elsewhere and not showing you care, hold your head up means more. They may be smug and content now but that can change.
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