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30-35,
*Girly
writes:Ok. So I'm 14 years old and I met this guy whom is my cousin's friend. He is 16 and we both have sidekick LX's so we frequently IM each other, and everytime we talk I start to have more feelings for him. He isn't mean to me, but he isn't sweet either. He's very matter a fact.. And sometimes a bit rude. He acts like he doesn't really care about me at all. I don't know what this means! Someone please help! I don't wanna want him!
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reader, iGirly +, writes (5 June 2008):
iGirly is verified as being by the original poster of the question Gosh, I am a girl Short Timer, try using a lil heart next time.. =(
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reader, Short timer +, writes (5 June 2008):
 simple...stop making contact with him. plus he is sixteen and he probably doesnt want a 14 year old girl. he may like someone more like him and mature.
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reader, x..BabyGirl..x  +, writes (4 June 2008):
 Try and figure out how he acts around your cousin and if it's similar then maybe he's just arrogant, which, admittedly, some people find quite an attractive trait.
If he's completely out of his shell with your cousin, maybe he's attracted to you but is trying to shut all his feelings away. It's a good sign that he's fine with IMming you.
I personally think he may like you back. He sounds like a 'bad boy' which most women are suckers for, and it sounds like you're no exception. Try to stop speaking to him or focus on another guy that you like, the feelings wont go instantly, it will take some time, but after a while, you'll think of him as a friend.
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reader, skellious +, writes (4 June 2008):
 He may have hidden feelings and not be showing them because he doesn't think you are interested and does not want to get hurt, or he may just like you as a friend, both are possible.
If you have not discussed anything likely to show feelings then you could try saying things that might lead to him showing some emotion. He may well be the type of guy that does not show emotion easily, but if you work at it I'm sure you will get some kind of response, but remember there are many guys out there, don't get hooked on one guy, it most often leads to disappointment.
As a final note I would like to point out he may be being rude without meaning to be, he may be trying to flirt or he may be trying to have a joke or he may just not be thinking, us guys often forget to THINK.
I wish you all the best and good luck!!!
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