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writes: I met a girl and I'm falling for her, problem is that I just got out a long relationship. I'm sure she's into me and she is what I've learned from my past that I want to have in my life. I'm worried about her talking with others and then I will lose a chance for a relationship with her. Also the time thing is restricting because I don't want to rush anything either. I know that she is interested in me but there is doubt in my mind at how much interest there is. What should I do? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 October 2005): She may well be thinking the exact same thing! Go with your instincts and don't let an opportunity pass you by. At least she can make an informed decision and you can move on if she's not interested..yet! Maybe something will happen down the line and by then you will have got your ex firmly out of your heart and life.
Good luck!
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reader, wwww.datinghaven.com +, writes (5 October 2005):
The three point success to Bill Gates (Worlds richest man if you didnt know)
* 1. Being there at the right TIME
* 2. Having the VISION
* 3. (the most important), taking ACTION!
Who cares if you just got out of a long relationship? The TIME is NOW, if you think you have a FUTURE and have the VISION, then take ACTION!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 October 2005): Ive been there, except I was the female who developed feelings for an "emotionally unavailable" male. We were "friends" for about a year, because he only wanted friendship i saw other men. ultimately, I met someone else. long story short, He got very upset when i told him this! How was i to know he had deep feelings for me. if only he had told me? well now ive lost a dear friendship. Be completely honest with her. tell her you dont want to rush anything... but you dont want to lose her. time will tell!
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