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writes: Recently my girlfriend found porn that has been in my junk drawer for years. We have been going out for 2 years and now she has decided she wants her own porn. Am I right in saying this is bad, as it means she will be fantasizing over other men and may go off me? She has had an unfaithful past with me as well. Would porn make this worse?
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 October 2005): Quite possibly
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 October 2005): "Been in junk draw for years as in junk draw that never gets opened, something thats been there before we even met. Porn i have no need for and havent used for ages. I have no reason for porn now as we have an acctive sex life."
Sorry, I just don't buy it. Sounds like your gal didn't believe that either. Why not throw it out?
Reminds me of the time I found a bunch of girl's phone numbers in my husband's wallet... gosh, just never threw them out... even though I'd bought him a new wallet last Christmas... the one I found the phone numbers in.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 October 2005): No it won't make it worse. I agree with the other reader, if you watch porn, why can't she? I find it quite funny how it irks you, guy-when the shoe is on the other foot! Do yourself both a favor and just delete this garbage off your computer-and try injecting more love, trust and respect in your relationship.
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (5 October 2005):
 I have to agree with the previous answer. Sorry Buddy, but it was your porn she found. She might have decided to give you a taste of your own medicine. I love the shoe being on the other foot, ahem, so to speak.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 October 2005): Been in junk draw for years as in junk draw that never gets opened, something thats been there before we even met. Porn i have no need for and havent used for ages. I have no reason for porn now as we have an acctive sex life.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 October 2005): Hi, Please correct me if Im wrong but didnt you say she found YOUR porn draw. You then go to ask whether this means she she be fantasizing over men other than you. So why is it ok for you to fantasize about other women but not vice versa?????After all, if you consider porn acceptable for you to look at then you have a real righ questioning whether she should. Sorry but it sounds like the typical male chauvinist double standard to me
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