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writes:Idk what to think, but this guy and me are being keeping touch for a year now. The reason that has been difficult is bcuz he's GI and stationed across the country. I've being in contact with him since he was stationed in Japan (I met him in a mission before he left fo his base Misawa) we have been in touch and even when he change location and now he's in the US.By now he might think I like him (or at least I imagine he would).Right now, he's on assignment in a secluded area, but I still email him. He wrote me a note thanking me for keeping contact with him.Is it that he has no clue about I like him, I mean we are friends but what female friend would do that after this long. Is it that he really doesn't feel anything towards me. We are friends I know, he had said it he enjoy our friendship since we can be close, but IDK what to think about this note he sent... Any advices from someone who knows about things from the heart please! Yeah, I should add that when we met, we really had a connection, but I had such little time to hang out with him, since he left 3 days later :'( Reply to this Question
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reader, UmmmNieve33  +, writes (10 July 2008):
 well yeah i agree wiht the chick before me guys.....have no clue me included so let him know tell him you love him yeah it might shock him but he might feel the same and was just scared to show you
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 July 2008): I would flat out tell him. Sometimes guys are clueless and other times they might think they are doing you a favor. For example: If he thinks he would hold you back being in the military and being unable to be physically close to you, then he may be keeping his feelings back so that you can have a 'better life.'
He honestly may think he's doing you a favor. Try to tell him you like being his friend but you would like to try being more than friends. Also tell him that if it doesn't work out you'd be happy to go back to being friends.
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