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30-35,
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writes:hi can anyone please help me I'm a 15 yo in a lesbian relationship...my girlfriend isn't makin me happy. i always try to express my needs to her. I need her to express her feelings also and she won't. I know we have love in our relationship but I don't feel like she cares or that she trusts me. I trust her we try workin on many things to do to make our relationship work. she always promises to do everything but I never see it and I'm tryin. were always arguing and I just wanna give up but I can't because I love her. she's hurt me plenty of times and I forgave her for it but I just feel like she's not tryin to make this relationshup work and I am. I just want her to fight for me because I wanna leave her. and now I have a summer job and I like on of the boy workers...OMG I really need help can anyone help PLEASE...ps- I've searched so mamy websites on how to have a healthy relationship and I wanna do the steps but I know shes gonna say she will try but I will never see it and ill feel like its only me workin hard for this relationship...wat can I do I want this relationship to work so bad
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 July 2008): There are some people that is hard for them to express their feelings, or are not comfortable with the idea (I fall on the first one). Probably your girlfriend has the same thing that I mentioned.
One thing that may alter her behavior is emotional turmoil. Has anything that has happened in her life? Like family issues or school?
Another thing that may be a factor may be her own insecurities. I'm just taking a guess here, but she might may be doubting her own sexual orientation, whether she is a lesbian or a confused teenager.
Not many things were provided here, like for how long you've been with her and her age. You're 15, and although this may sound rude, you and your girlfriend are still young, and like many of the young relationships, there's a lot of learning but also a lot of break ups. I admire you, though, for sticking up with her at her side and trying to understand her.
I hope things get better for you
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