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male
age
51-59,
anonymous
writes:Hi allIve been with my partner for 18 months now, we see each other weekends mainly due to distance. But are looking for a place of our own.Obviously our sex life revolves around the weekends.This weekend seemed fine, we made love friday night and on the saturday morning, and sunday morning she initiated a 69 which was great...Then we both went for a shower, and an hour or so after the 69 i initiated things... I wanted to be spontaneous.She was a tiny bit dry still so i went down on her for a while and when i came back up ...bam my erection was gone... i went back down till she had an orgasm and was still soft even then!After a few mins of her 'working on me' i was hard again and we had sex, but for a bit i wasnt sure it would happen.She seems to think nothing of it whatsoever and that nothings wrong, and ive tried not to make a deal of it but its kind of messed my head up... does this sound like the beginning of Erectile Dysfunction to you?Or do i simply need to accept that at 37 ill sometimes need encouragement if ive had an orgasm recently?Thanks.
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reader, DoubleM  +, writes (15 December 2009):
 Naw, I really doubt it had anything to do with pending erectile dysfunction problems, and I agree with "Beingblack" that you should chase the idea out of your head immediately. You were probably just a bit stressed or apprehensive. Start worrying about that in 20 years or so.
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reader, Beingblack +, writes (14 December 2009):
 If this is the first time it happened, I really wouldn't worry too much. Get the phrase 'Erectile Dysfunction' out of your head asap.
Men have enough sexual 'performance' type pressures to put up with, and negative thoughts can really mess things up.
Just remember that you are not 19 any more, and things need a little longer to recover. I realise you are trying to cram as much action as you can into the weekend, but give your body every chance.
Take your time, enjoy as much foreplay as possible, and don't think about your erection at all, just enjoy having one.
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