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*nloveagain_y
writes: hey again :)ok... theres this guy in class. he's one of my best friends. the thing is we became best friends all of a sudden. i mean we've known each other for a year and a half, initially we hardly used to speak to each other. n in the past two months, we've become really close friends. that puzzles me, but thats not my question..well, till recently he used to text me once in two days or so.. and now, he doesn't that much. so i asked him what was up and he says that cos of the exams his parents dont let him text much. fair enough.but when i called him a couple of days back, he tells me about how he texted some other [girl] friends of his, from our class, at 2:30 in the night just cos he could. or at 10:30.. or other random times.. and how much fun they had catching up.why couldn't he message me then? what's going on here? should i call or message him on my own again?sorry abt the long question! thanks in advance :) love u all!
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reader, Griffo +, writes (14 December 2009):
So he told you that he's messaging other girls at night? and how much fun they had catching up? This sounds like he's just trying to make you feel jealous so that you chase him more ... just ignore it. Otherwise you'll fall for the hook! Your just being played. So play back baby! Dont call him, be strong and ignore him, eventlually it will bug him so much he'll all of a sudden be wondering why you don't care anymore. just say well i thought you were studing and catching up with your other girlfriends!
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reader, inloveagain_y +, writes (14 December 2009):
inloveagain_y is verified as being by the original poster of the questionoh, yeah.. sorry i forgot to add this... he tells me im his closest friend and i always help him with his girlfriend troubles. he calls me or messages me a lot at those times..
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