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writes:I am 50 years young and a have been a widow for 2 years. I have start dating . So I meet this man 5 months ago who has been divorced for three years, he has two children age 16 and 13, he spends a lot of time wiht them, becuse the X wife's job causes her to travel a lot . He is a nice guy, respectfuly, Good job, smart, handsome, all you could want in a Guy. When we first meet we both agreed we did not want the relationship to get to serious to fast. We see each other 1-2 times a week. We have great sex have fun toether and seem to really enjoy each other. We get along great. Just recently he sent me a text and said He has to sort some things out n his life and we will talk later. Now i have not dated anyone in years, does this mean i am being dumped or what does this man mean?
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reader, eddie85 +, writes (13 May 2011):
 What a cad for dropping this on you via a text message.
I think there's something more going on. After 5 months, you have something built up and you deserve a better explanation then a lame text message.
I agree with the other people and I suggest being proactive and calling him and asking him what the story is.
You may have to give him some space -- perhaps he is a fearful about being "in love" again or perhaps there was an issue with his children. Either way, he does deserve to give you atleast a brief explanation... he owes you that much.
If he doesn't, I suggest you take a closer look at how he communicates and whether he is truly "a catch".
Good luck.
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reader, TEM +, writes (10 May 2011):
 You've been seeing him for 5 months and have had an intimate relationship. You must have gotten to know him fairly well during this time. Unless there was an obvious negative incident during one of your dates, I think you deserve more than a text stating he has to work some things out. That's a rude way to break things off, if that is what he is doing. He owes you an explanation. I'd call him and ask him what this means, in terms of your relationship.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (10 May 2011):
 It's possible he's dumping you. Or he may be seriously trying to sort a few things out and just need time and space.
16 and 13 are ages that can demand a lot of time... work could be busy.... could be a zillion things.
how long ago was the text and did you do anything to respond to it?
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reader, hannah76  +, writes (10 May 2011):
 Hello,
It could be the initial stages of him checking out. On the other hand, he may just be letting you know he has things to attend to and won't be fully in contact for the moment. Obviously he has the two children as priority. I would wait for him to talk later. That's all you could do at the moment I'm afraid. Wait to see what else develops and possibly come back to the site and post more. Hope all goes well.
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