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writes:Does he like me as a friend or more?I'm 16, he's 17. Lets call him Leo. We both attend the same church. And we are both black and dark skinned. It all started at a church sleepover. Leo was messing around with my friend Sarah and I. After a while Sarah and i got tired. So we stood at the wall and started talking . I got distracted and started thinking about something. When I lifted my head up I saw Leo staring at me from across the wall squinting one of his eyes. He saw me looking at him and didn't take his eyes off me. I wasnt wearing any makeup. Later on in the night, I was going up to the girls room and Leo called me to get his phone charger. The room was locked so we had to wait. He asked me what school and year I was in and I told him. I told him he had to apologise for hitting me earlier. He stroked my arm up and down and said sorry.After that everyone was in a group and when I was talking Leo started watching me again. I asked him why he keeps staring at me but he didn't answer. Someone asked what my favourite food was I said kebab and Leo said kebab too. The next day in church, I was in a group with Leo again but I sat there without saying anything. Leo was watching me again and started making small talk and when I smiled at him he smiled back.At a carol service, he saw me greeting people and then he called me over. I was in the choir singing and for a while he was watching me sing. When I asked another guy for a drink he started acting as if I was talking to him.We went ice skating for church and he sat beside me on the bus. But during the trip my friend and I were singing really loud and he got so mad that he shouted at me to shut up. During ice skating he laughed when I fell but talked more to my other friends. There was no more space at my table. And Leo asked if I was really going to sit with ny friends and I said yeah but there was no room so Leo said he would get us a table and if I ran away he would shoot me. In the end there was space at the table so we sat there. Leo later said that Sarah and I were so embarrassing. On the way home everyone including him were laughing at my laugh and he made a rap about my hairline.On new years eve Leo asked me if I was taking part in the group karaoke when I said I was I asked him if he was and he said yes. In church on Sunday, when I got communion his face expression changed as I walked past him and after the service our eyes met and he quickly glanced at my bottom and up. I was wearing a long parka jacket that hugs my figure. I later texted him asking why he looked me up and down and he denied. W texted from 2-6pm and he made fun of me throughout using laughing faces. He told me I am really weird as usual. And when I thought he said I was good looking he told me not to get all high on myself. He also laughed when I said people say I have a nice smile and nice eyes. He said I don't look innocent when I told him that people say I do. He also said i have no curves. Which isn't true I'm pear shaped. I ended the conversation by saying he was making me tired and I was going to nap. He told me to sleep well. Can somebody tell me this guy's intentions please?
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reader, Roboaxe  +, writes (7 January 2016):
 He's flirting for sure. A very odd and juvenile way of flirting, but it is what it is.
I'd say stop asking the "Why are you looking at me" questions. He's not going to say "Because I am attracted to you" because that would kill the vibe.
Just go with it, be playful with him and don't think about it too much. Keep texting, keep talking, and I'm sure he will man up and ask you on a proper date soon!
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (5 January 2016):
 It can be difficult to tell at this stage what his intentions are. I can see that he likes your company and he is able to have a laugh with you, so this is a good start. I'm guessing he was trying to flirt with you as well which indicates that yes he probably does like you.
Why not just go with the flow and see how things progress between you both. If you don't expect to much well then you will not get hurt. Good luck.
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