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Does this behaviour mean he's jealous? Something else?

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Question - (16 July 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 18 July 2011)
A female United States age 30-35, *hula90h9 writes:

hi :) uhmmm....so my fiance has been with many other girls than i have (ive only been with my sons father and ofcourse him( my fiance) ) well some of the girls he was beeing woth he wasnt dating he'd just have sex with them he says he never remembers because he was always drunk ( and and dnt worry i made him get checked Hes clean :) ) well out of all the girls he was being with he was only in a relationship with two of them. and for some reason those 2 girls are always around. one of the girls recently had a bby and was showing her child to my fiance but he gets mad. evrytime he sees her with her baby he has something to say he says "why is she always showing off her baby!", "i dint care if she had a kid!, i hate people like that" i dnt knw but to me it sound like hes jealous he always talks about her and always seems to see her everywhere. he says he doesnt Love anybody else but me that he has never Loved any other girl but me. should i talk to him about what i think? i think he might still like this girl or just might be in love with her and not me :/ i think he wishes that was his baby i dnt knw what to do. should i call the wedding off? so he can go with her? or should i just put up with it? shes everywhere and his family loves her more than me what should i do??

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A female reader, chula90h9 United States +, writes (18 July 2011):

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chula90h9 agony auntThank you for your advice ill talk to him :) and thank you for listening :)

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A female reader, misztoria United States +, writes (16 July 2011):

misztoria agony auntI don't think he's in love with her. I have a child and my son's father has children and I know when we were together he would get mad at his ex for showing off her new child (she has his daughter) but he wasn't in love with her, it was just annoying to him. If you guys are engaged then it shouldn't hurt to confront him about it. If he gets very defensive then I would worry a little bit, but i think he's jealous, probably just irritated.

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