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writes:Hi my girlfriend and i split up 3 and a half months ago i have been trying, to get her back , via mutual friend she met another man 1 month after we split. she Might be in rebound relationship. she has told me via friend to move on several times, my Instinct has always told me she reluctantly split up with me I know she still has feelings for me.About a month ago, her friend said to her that i am Upset and she said to her friend , There,s nothing i can do about that But last week her friend said to her , he ( meaning me ) is feeling Down .Which i am . And she said I UNDERSTAND, why didnt she say , i have told him already to move on ? Is she begining to think we Could get back together ? Thank you .
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reader, Aunt Geri +, writes (5 August 2017):
She has moved on. And you should too. She only said I understand. She understands why you're feeling down but unfortunately this doesn't mean she wants to get back together. Try to move on, otherwise you'll be spending most of your life chasing a lost cause.
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (3 August 2017):
 NO, she is OVER and DONE with you. ACCEPT it.
She is tired of the mutual friend keep bringing you up but instead of telling this friend:" enough I don't want to hear stuff about X" she just said, I understand.
IF she was interested in rekindling things I am SURE she would ACT like a grown woman and contact you. She hasn't because she is done.
You, OP are NOT a mindreader.
And SHE is seeing someone else.
When someone says MOVE ON - they mean MOVE ON. It means they don't FEEL as strongly or deeply as YOU do. It happens.
Sorry if I sound harsh but it's beyond me that someone your age can't accept that someone else has decided to move on from you. I get that it hurt and you want her back but that doesn't mean SHE wants that. WHY would say move on - IF she was still interested? That would be stupid of her. Because if she REALLY wanted to be with you, she would be with you. NOT dating someone else.
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