A
female
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes:This is sort of hard to explain, but there's this girl who I met in my geography class and I feel this strange connection between us. I had already sort of liked her before we even started talking. The first day back to school, second sememster, she came up to me and we started talking. Neither of us were able to keep eye contact, which made our conversation a little awkward. I was interested in getting to know her so I texted her one day and we talked about each other and asked each other questions. She told me that she was bi-curious. (I am bi). A few days later we ended up seeing each other at the mall, so I hung out with her for a while. She was with two of her other friends. The whole time she stood next to me, and at one point she was on one end and I was at the other and said something about it then moved next to me again. They all had the idea to play hide and seek at the mall, and we made teams. When her best friend chose her to be on her team, she paused for a minute and just stared at her friend as if she didn't want to be on her team. I ended up being on her other friends team. My friend decided to tell the girl I like, that I like her. Pretending I didn't know my friend had asked her that I said "What did my friend tell you?" and she said "umm nothing" then I said "Really now?" and she said "She told me that you like me ^.^" Then she asked if it was true and I told her. She thought it was awesome and cute. When she was talking to my friend she said "I dont know who I like" I asked her why she doesn't know and she said it's because she is afraid of getting hurt again and it's hard for her to like somebody right now. I said to her "Not that you even like me, but I wouldn't hurt you." and she said "You don't know if I don't like you. I might." One final thing is that today, in geography we talked again and she STILL cant give me eye contact. She will look at me then look away, but now I am able to give eye contact. After the bell rung she waited outside the door for me to get out and we walked down the hall smiling and laughing. Alright, I'm sorry this was so long..I felt like you needed to know everything going on. I'm pretty much confused does she like me? Is she confused? The bigger problem of this is she is still in love with her ex.. I just need some advice on what to do and such. Thank you!
View related questions:
best friend, her ex, text Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
reader, anonymous, writes (25 January 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThey're back together. But she's now confessed that she likes me a lot and that she has never liked some one this much besides her current boyfriend.
A
reader, anonymous, writes (21 January 2011): i think you should give it a little while like a couple of weeks for her break up to settle down then just go for it :) and if you both like eacthother than it should go well :)
...............................
A
reader, anonymous, writes (21 January 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThey broke up 9 months ago
...............................
A
female
reader, ssaarraahh +, writes (20 January 2011):
 u know that maybe she broke up recently, so it is better not to come in between cz she can go back to her ex anytime. when u feel like she has forgotten her ex u might wanna try talking to her . hope it works good luck
...............................
A
female
reader, anonymous, writes (20 January 2011): To be honest it just sounds as though she's shy.
Telling by that awfully confusing dialogue between you two id say she just didnt want to tell you out right that she liked you!
just make here feel comfatable, dont be too overpowering or anything and let your felings be clear to her through your converstations. I suggest going on a good few more group outings and letting your bond/relationship become stronger, then ask her in a friendly way to go out just you two .:) good luck!
...............................
|
