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writes:Hi People,Regarding a little problem I was confused about a certain thing. Well it's about the following: there is a girl in my class and I know that she is kinda shy around me. Even my friend told me she acts shy when I am around. The thing is, that I also made a lot of mistakes because I didn't know how to handle the situation. Eventually she did send me a friend request on facebook. After some time, I figured that I needed to grow some b*lls (sorry for my language) and I needed to make a move. I just think I might have been kinda to late and she might not be interested in me anymore.The big problem is this: I started chatting with her on FB and she did reply on me quickly. After 2 days I asked her something again regarding the things we've spoken before, she then suddenly didn't answer but did check the message. I thought she might not be interested and I virtually gave it up, but to my surprise she answered 3 days later which I did not expect at all. What does this mean? Thank you all in advance!
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (15 January 2013):
 It may not mean anything. she answered it when she had the answer or she had the time.
stop over thinking this.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 January 2013): Well she's shy! If it's only around you then that is one of the best signs you can get! The fact that she didn't ignore the question forever and still responded after three days is also a positive sign. It means she couldn't let you go without an answer, which she would have done had she not cared what you thought. Remember, people have busy lives, maybe it was a wrong time for her and then she remembered later and rushed back to answer you. Maybe she wanted to think over how she would answer you. I call it all good signs, be patient with her and her shyness, get closer to her so that she's more comfortable opening up to you. If you manage that, then she'll probably already have a thing for you. Go in for it and be upfront, if she's shy she of all people won't dance around on your feelings, especially not crush them. Be honest. She may not reply right away, if she says yes then great! If she says no nicely, probably won't if she's extra shy around just you, well then there will always be more girls out there for you, and remember that you are awesome and more girls will come around!Source: I used to be a really shy girl at one point until I decided to stop having my heart broken and start stepping on those of the jerks around me.
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