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age
36-40,
anonymous
writes: HiI'm a female attracted to females. Iv fallen in love with a girl who doesn't care about me. At least from my point of view she doesn't. Now i think iv fallen out of love with her but i think deep down i still love her like Romeo loved Juliet.Now, shes far away from me and the one who made me realize that I'm attracted to girls.And now as time is passing by, Iv started to fantasize about other women. I find myself being attracted to woman older than me. And recently, iv been wanting to kiss this girl who is a year younger than me. No one knows that I'm a lesbian?Now the women I'm fantasizing about are my friends. I find myself ridiculous. Now this girl is one year younger than me, shes very intelligent and has many friends. Can it be possible that she is attracted to me?Like shes very intelligent and does everything on time and has many friends too but somewhere i think she likes me. You know... She always keeps a distant. Like one day shes very friendly with me and the other shes not. Well, I want her. How do i make her mine? I cant say that I'm a lesbian because I'm not ready yet but i think that shes not ready too. Maybe shes scared of her feelings towards me? She likes me. I know. Any advice on how to flirt with her or something because my life is becoming miserable thinking about her. Thank you.
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reader, shrodingerscat +, writes (3 August 2011):
We cannot tell you if she likes you because we do not know her and we are not her. We cannot read her mind, unfortunately. You will have to ask her yourself.
No one can force or "Make" anyone like anyone else. You need to talk to her yourself and see if she enjoys romantic relationships with women.
If you want something, you have to go after it yourself, rather than waiting for it to happen to you. Do not be passive. Talk to her.
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