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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:hi everybody!i soo confused at the moment what to do... im really close with my best friend and we are seriously overly protective of each other and love each other to bits and are upset when either of us upsets one another... last year she was telling me her guy friend was gay which i dnt mind at all its great but she said she could be bi too and i said cool i wudnt have cared but before she said that i had feelings for her but not strong. now im head over heels in love with her... my cousin and her fought and she got down right bitchy at him when he was dis recpecting me and he told her to marry me... i asked why he said that and he said she is defo bi (his gay btw) the way she touches me and everything he says its obvious but im not sure and i dont want to ask and ruin our friendship..we hold hands now again and sometimes for the laugh to freak our other friends out! we can tk to each other bout nething.. i have to agree with my cousin that she does like touch (meaning holding hands kissing my cheek hugging me ect) in a more passionate way then others but am i just paranoid? please can nebody help me what to do...???
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 September 2009): Look, first you to are close to each other... even if there's not a sexual attraction, the two of you have a certain closeness. Add to that you're both young women, and at your age some non-sexual touching is common.
Now, she's already told you that she could be bi, which should open the door for more conversation. Right now, you may have a serious crush on her, which she may or may not be intersted in exploring.
If you were to get physcially invovled, you need to consider (and talk to her about) what might change between the two of you. if you two have a steamy 6 or 8 week romance, and it ends, can you go back to being friends?
I think that the best thing you can do is talk to her. You two are best freinds and that's what best freinds do!
Talk, talk some more, and then some more... if you decide to change the status of your relationship, communication is key! Good Luck!
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