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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:I really fancy my next door neighbour, he approaches me whenever i see him, always offers to do jobs for me and even asked me to the cinema once. I have since asked him when we are going and he said he would get back to me about it. He never did but i have seen him outside and chatted to him quite a bit but nothing gets said. He still offers to do jobs for me but i am unsure whether he really likes me and wants to go out or he is just being friendly. I dont know what to make of it and would really like to go out with him.what should i do??
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reader, kenny +, writes (15 March 2007):
 I think this guy does like you but is just shy. The next time he offers to do a job for you offer to make him some lunch or something and get to know him better this way. Then when you feel comfortable ask him about the cinema date.
I fancy my neighbour, we sometimes talk when we see each other on our driveways and i think there is a connection between us, so i know where you are coming from.
Let me know how it goes, and good luck x
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reader, AskEve +, writes (15 March 2007):
 Next time he asks to do a job for you ask him if he'd like a coffee afterwards and get to know him better. Try and build up a friendship before anything more. Once he feels more comfortable talking to you then he'll ask you to go see that movie, I'm sure of it!
Eve
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reader, cd206 +, writes (14 March 2007):
 Take the lead. Tell him you're going to the cinema to see whatever tomorrow and would he like to come with you. I think girls often get the idea that the guy has to make the first move but if you take control of the situation, not only will he find it a massive turn on but you're also more likely to get results. And if he says no don't be disheartened because he might actually be really busy but if he says no just laugh and say you're planning to hold him to his offer to go to the cinema though. Good luck!
CD
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