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writes:Hi, i have recently started going to the gym and i have sorta got this impresssion that my gym intructor likes me but i am unsure because i know as a part of their job role they have to be nice and encoraging but he has said things to me that seem very flirtaous to me, for example one time he said to me when he was showing me a new stretching and relaxsation moves " now just relax and sit next to me and think about like we are on a date together" i found this very strange. what do people think?, there has been other little things that have been said but im not going to go into it as i want to keep it short.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 January 2006): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for everyone's feedback, i will admit i do have a small crush on him, their has been other little things like he said he though i was cute and he even said i didnt really need the gym as i am already so tiny, he also gives me candy and he sometimes offers me his water bottle to use which i have not seen him offer to anyone else, and everytime i go into work out and he talks to me for atleast 15mins or more and its usaully unrelated to fitness, i guess he might like me but i keep telling myself that a guy like that is totally out of my league and im so shy and i could never ask him out for a drink as im just too scared that im wrong and ill get rejected.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 January 2006): Gym trains are ALWAYS like this. They are usually oversexed, overdeveloped, underbrained and at it like rabbits! I once screwed mine only to find out he'd done my house-mate (who referred me to him) a day earlier.
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reader, Mr.Ed +, writes (19 January 2006):
 Could be interested, however; some guys that are in the gym get really hyped up on boosting someones ego. Whenever I'm in there the female instructors boost mine as well as the male's. But never have they used an analogy of pretend were on a date! The question seems to be is it working or not? Do you like this guy? In addition I agree with Milana, if you wish to persue this, then ask him to if he could meet you later for a drink/juice and talk. That should let you know where you stand. Good luck
Ed
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reader, MilanaNYC21 +, writes (19 January 2006):
 Anything is possible. My ex was my trainer at the gym and I actually met him while he was training me. He was very suttle, only once mentioning I have gorgeous blue eyes lol. Definitely made me melt though. I think he probably is interested, just nervous because he can get in trouble for getting involved romantically.
I suggest being around him after the training session is over. If he continues to flirt then you will know whether he is into you or not.
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