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26-29,
*onfuzzledamethyst
writes:hiOkay my bf has a friend... well a guy in his form they say they are mates but they seem kinda fake and argue and banter alot! anyway...I am also kinda mates with this guy we met last summer and started talking I got him to go out with my bestie who then dumped him...then wanted him back... and stuff anyway they are completly split now but another one of my mates likes him but he doe'snt like her back and she is so depressed about it anyway I talk to him alot and we have met up a few times outside of school and we have a laugh... My bf kinda got abit jelous of this and he feels inferior to this guy but I told him I was'nt gonna go off with him and he believed me because I love my bf soo much but I saw how sweet a boyfriend he was to my bestie but it never bothered me...untill now...apparently the guy fancies me and he does flirt with me ALOT but its not like I'm gonna ditch my bf for his mate but last night I had a dream we were together and he was so sweet an now I'm kinda attracted to him... Both my bf and this guy are good looking in their own way... My bf has more of a Leonardo Dicaprio look and the other guy looks abit like Channing Tatum either way I can't go out with this guy cos it looks bad to ALOT OF PEOPLE! and I would'nt want too but I kinda fancy him abit but what should I do is this healthy or unhealthy and does this mean I am going off my bf? (even though I don't feel like I am)?!?! I'm confused please help?xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 February 2013): It's time to distance yourself from this mate. It's normal to get feelings for other people when you're in a relationship (dating, engaged, married, long term partnership) but to continue to hang with someone when you have feelings for them is playing with fire.Basically I'm going to make this simple: If you want your current boyfriend distance yourself from friend.If you want your friend, break it off with your boyfriend.
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reader, RUOpenMinded  +, writes (3 February 2013):
iAmHereToHelpYou is dead on. Stay single and sample a little of everything. Life is too short for rushed relationships.
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