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*ozi101
writes:Ok so i have been dating this girl for about 4 weeks now i really like her and would do anything for her she also likes me the same way.Well im just wondering if she is loyal to me? because i introduced her to a freind of mine and she couldnt stop saying how cute he was she wrote his name on her hand with a heart on it and told me that she has 3 boyfreinds?!(her other freind) she was kidding of course but this joke has been going on for almost a week now.. Is she trying to make me jealous or is it a sign that she isnt trust worthy? i asked her what was going on but she told me that she would never betray or cheat on me and that she loves me, she has also been canceling our dates to the movies recently, this is the 4 time Am i being a prick or should i give her space? (Final exams starts in a week) mabye thats why?
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reader, mozi101 +, writes (9 November 2010):
mozi101 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the advice guys i forgot to mention a detail here the freind i introduced her was over MSN and he lives in another country, and the other boy is this 13 year old kid who she says is homosexual and that he likes her but she told me and i know she would never have something with him(because he is young etc) idk im going to talk to her tommorow, she asked me if i want to hit the mall with her on friday but yea ill try and figure things out. Oh i also forgot to mention that she is jealous and she found out about my ex-girlfreinds(she got pretty pissed cuz i didnt tell her)
But everytime she reminds me of jeff(freind i introduced her over msn) she looks at me in the eyes for like 2 minutes in a serious tone that im the only one for her its confusing for me but ill take the advice and tell her how i feel, thanks for the help really apreciate it ;)
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reader, DenimandLace44  +, writes (9 November 2010):
 She's not your girlfriend. She's boy crazy and will move along with whoever comes along and catches her eye next. She isnt ready for a relationship with one guy. I'm sorry but its true. She may be cute and fun and sweet, but she is not monogamous.
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reader, diebler33 +, writes (9 November 2010):
 Ok im gona be honest, when it comes to relationships im VERY playful with my significant others friends but, always wit respect towards his friend, him and myself. Let me tell you something she doesnt respect you. Let her go! While she's cancelling plans with you, she could probably be making them with your friend, you've been with her for a month, not a lifetime. You cant trust a girl like that-comming from a girl trust me...hope i helped, let me know
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 November 2010): well if you think she is blowing you off to study, ask her to study with you, it makes sence...and on the three other boy friends, do some digging and find out this so called inside joke!! and find out who all is involved, she will slip up sometime if she relly is cheating, but dont confront her until you are almost psoitive she is....
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (9 November 2010):
 Your girlfriend sounds rather boy crazy..Don't you think she should be writing your name and a heart on her hand instead of your friend's? Have you asked her why she canceled your dates 4 times in a row?
Honestly, I don't think she's ready to be in a relationship. It's only been 4 weeks and she's already calling your friend cute, writing his name on her hand, saying she loves you but cancels your dates all the time. Break up with her because she's not girlfriend material.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 November 2010): well if someone is really loyal they wouldnt be sayin that yur friend is cute and writing a heart next to his name.
thats not even rite to begin with, im not trying to say to break up with her but maybe yu should sit down and talk to her face to face and find out wats up with her.?
no i dnt think yur being a prick i think yu jus dnt want to get hurt. yeah the exams start in a week but that doesnt mean she has to cancel 4 dates with yu im sure she can make time to study and spend time with yu.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 November 2010): Look at the situation at hand: You've only been dating her for a month. That's not nearly enough time to say that you've really gotten to know her. I would confront her first and let her know that you feel uncomfortable about she's been expressing her thoughts about these other guys. Don't worry, that's not admitting to her that you're a wuss, that's you being a man and being honest about your feelings. You will find later on in life, that women really do appreciate that and that's all we've ever wanted in a guy- to be honest about his feelings. Tell her that you don't play games and if that's what she's getting at, then it's immature and you're not going to play along for her satisfaction. Be nice about it, but make sure you know she knows where you stand. Let her know that you care about her, but you also won't just stand there while she makes you wonder. Good luck.
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