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26-29,
anonymous
writes:Thank you for you time and help.My girlfriend and I have been dating for 3 months, but my problem is, I don't think she loves me back as I do. I would do anything for her, anything, but she never has the time or is busy. As long as we have been going out, we barely hang out alone at all, we have probably gone on 6 dates alone. Because of this we have barely done anything romantic, we haven't even kissed yet. When we actually are alone everything is great, but when there are friends around things are so cold and empty. At school (we are sophomores in high school), she always goes and hangs out with her friends, and so I go to mine. I want so bad to just be alone and together like I see other couples doing, but it's not happening. But that aside, the main reason I don't think she is that into me is because I recently went on vacation for two weeks and came back, and even though I was staying up really really late to talk to her because of timezones and whatever, she never seemed to stay up at all to talk to me... and whenever I said I missed her, she never said anything back. But the worst was when I got back and saw her, she barely paid me any attention, and was just texting people on her phone or something. Everyone else who has ever liked me would have hugged me and been excited to see me again, so I'm just wondering what I should do? I realize you won't be getting the full story and therefore it will hard to judge... but even so, should I break it off before I completely fall for her, or should I talk to her about my feelings? I feel clueless when approaching these kinds of things, please help me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 January 2013): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionReading this again, even days later I realize what an idiot I was, overanalyzing everything. Sure, maybe she was being kind of clueless but so was I. If any guy ever feels like I did, they need to step up to solve this problem, and talk about it. Again, thanks for your time.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (6 January 2013):
 Honey she's not as into you as you are into her...
Have you asked her how she feels? Why do you consider her your girlfriend... did you ask her to be your girlfriend?
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