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writes: I've posted here before about my situation, but things keep developing. About six weeks ago, I got told by my new girlfriend suddenly that she was gay. At this point, we weren't that close so we just agreed to be friends. We'd email each other a lot and as we got to know each other, we'd see more of each other. As we saw more of each other, we got closer. We'd start to hug and flirt. We'd go to kiss, but just put our heads together and then pull away. This went on for a few weeks and then on Christmas Day, she invited me to her house and we had a huge amazing kiss. We spoke and she told me that she'd be with me in an ideal world. We saw each other a few times over the Christmas period and on NYE, she backed away again. I said at that point that we shouldn't speak or see each other for a while because I was really upset that I couldn't be with her. After a few days, she called me and asked to come round my house. Later on that night, she asked me if I wanted to go out for a drink with her. Which I did. And again, we got on really well.This week, we've been seeing each other and the flirting, hugging and holding hands has kind of continued. We've nearly kissed a few times. We get on so so well. She is my perfect girl and we've both said that we'll always be here for each other. I can tell there's more to us than just friends. It's the way we look at each other. She's gone back to university now, which I think will help her clear her own head. Am I doing the right thing in cutting all contact and let her come to me? She is very confused and I don't want her to think that I'm doing it to be mean. I think the space will help us both, but at the same time, I'm really going to miss her. The ball's in her court I guess.
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reader, Dawnest +, writes (9 January 2006):
Your newly emerged out of the closet gay girlfriend only has feelingsof affection for you as a good friend. Any sexual attraction flew out of the window the moment she discovered muff diving.
Start searching out the hetro girls who will enjoy your attentions and make you feel like a man again.
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