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writes:my best friend came on to me jus 2day ago, i said no, so he got angry and told me to leave, he came after me two minutes later to apologise and he apologised for the rest of the day. I felt rubbish when i got home cried my eyes out, i still was not over it by the next day so i accused him of using me for money, that really hurt him, he would never do that. I love him we have shared the best times. Well we talked all this over and he said he does not want to be friends anymore, when i kind of agreed to it, he stopd me and said he willing to give it another shot, but this is the last chance, and then are friendship is over. He did say the last time we argued to tho, im so scared of losing him, he has been my rock through so much, and i no i have been his. Does he mean it when he say last chance? I no men dont expres emotns as much but when he does its the best. Please help i feel so bad i accusd him of money, will he trust me and forgive me, and does he mean it when he says last chance? HELP
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (25 April 2010):
He fancies you, and it hurts him knowing he can't have you. So he will have to make his own decision about whether he can remain your friend. You then accused him of trying to use him for money, which will have hurt. I think you need to back away and give him some space so he can start to get over you. If that means you lose him, then so be it. But he has to be able to move on.
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (25 April 2010):
You have to realise that you are using him as more than a friend here.
You can't have a guy around to be that close to and have as your support mechanism and hug them and love them and then them NOT have feelings for you.
If you want to be with him then be with him.
If you want to be friends then back away from him and let him get over you.
You can't be that reliant on one person. It's not fair on him to have to be there for you when he wants more.
Figure out how you feel about him and if you don't want him as a boyfriend then tell him and let him go.
Good Luck!! xx
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