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writes:dear all. Pls help. I had a difficult split from my ex who I still love desperatley. We last saw each other 4 months ago. There,s not a day that passes when i haven.t thought about him. Anyway,we have been chatting a bit on messenger for the last couple of weeks,and i finally plucked up the courage to say we should meet up soon,and he said,yes,no problem darling. So i said,ok,i.m free for the next few days,when r u free? Then he didn,t respond,and after an hour he sighned out. He was working until 4pm,so i thought ok,maybe he,s busy. Anyway,due to the problems we had, i messaged later saying,it,s ok. Don.t worry,mtg will be ok. The past is the past. Hope to c u soon. Anyway,i signed back into messenger this evening. He was back on it,and didn.t say a word,so after a time i signed out. I.m a bit confused,and don,t know what to make of it? I can hardly mention it again! What,s happened here? I.d really like to meet him for a drink,just to mend a freindship,lay the ghost of the past,and generally have a catch up,but am not sure what,s going on now? Pls advise. Thank you.x
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reader, angelDlite +, writes (13 June 2011):
 no need to block him but don't chase him either. you have split up so just get on with your life, that does not mean you have to ignore each other forever. maybe in the future you might get back together if it turns out you both want to but at the moment i don't see that happening
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 June 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHi girls. Thanx for your answers. The thing is we fell out around six weeks ago,and i sent him horrid msgs,as i was upset. He had blocked me from messenger before,but unblocked me when he realised he had over done it,and everytime i logged in, he would too,and i finally gave in and msgd him,and he responded,and seemed relieved,so i don.t get it. My curiosity gets the better of me,and i end up logging in,and the moment i do,he usualy does. I can't handle blocking him,incase he msgs me,and i don,t get it! U r right though,i can.t mention it again.would it be best never to log in again? To get truly over it? or will he think i'm being funny,because he didn't respond to my request ? X thanks
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reader, angelDlite +, writes (12 June 2011):
it sounds like he is not keen on the idea but he thinks it would be unkind to tell you so, he may be hoping that you will leave it as long as he ignores the issue. you don't say what the circumstances of the break up were only that you still love him so i am guessing that he was the one who decided to break up and that he is not in love with you. he may even have a new girlfriend by now so this could be why he is reluctant to meet.
if you still get on ok in your messages then just carry on doing that, but don't hold out any hope of a meeting with him and don't ask him for one again as it seems to make him uncomfortable and thats when he stops replying to you. just wait now and see does he bring up the subject of meeting, but try not to be too disappointed if he doesn't
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 June 2011): you said it yourself, the past is the pastdon't beat yourself up over this one, he's been friendly had an online catch up - now move on - delete and forget,hes not worth your timeit's the only way you will get over him once and for all and be free to find a new man
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