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writes:hey guys !sooo i have this problem that i keep thinking about it everyday ! sooo i have had a crush on a my cousin since i was 12 years old and he travel a lot so when he leaves i forget about him. Yet when he come back i start liking him.For instance, i used to, soo he is sooo shy and he doesn't talk to girls a lot. He's never had a lot of ex's but he in the past he never talked to me much in discussion but this year he talk to me a lot. Whenever he sees me he talks to me. He says a lot of sorry's on a tiny things like he steps on my foot he says sorry sorry a milion time LOL i feel like an ididot writing this but sometimes he stares at me and when i look at him he look on something else, as if he feels i caught him soo many times looking at me.What does it mean ,, does he likes me now or what ??! i'm not sure but let's try advice me please i really need you, guys !
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 August 2012): Sorry to get technical but there is something called the "major histocompatibility group complex.(mhgc)" It's got something to do with who you can accept a kidney transplant from. Anyway it's caused by genes and it affects your body's immune defenses. If there is too little diversity, that's bad for the immune system. You can't fight infections as well. The same is true if there is too much diversity. You can have too much or too little just like everything else. Well they have found that people are attracted to others more (I think it's by smell) if their mhgc is a close enough match but not too close. So sure, your cousin might be in love with you. And when cousins fall in love it's stronger than when anybody else falls in love. (Romeo and Juliet were faily close cousins.) Of course there is the question of whether first cousin is too close for other reasons, so here is a reference for you. It's also kind of technical, but young people are smarter every year and you'll probably enjoy it. Most people who read it decide that third or fourth cousin is ideal for having grandchildren.An Association between Kinship and Fertility of Human Couples Agnar Helgason et al. SCIENCE vol. 329 no. 5864 February 8, 2008 page 813 – 816
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reader, Atsweet1 +, writes (19 August 2012):
 It's possible cousins could be attracted and date he probably does likes his cousin if he stare in a more personal way like yes he wants some of that
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