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writes: Does He Like Me?We are co-workers but work in different locations and in different fields. We communicate by phone and e-mail almost daily. Our phone calls last sometimes up to one hour - 25% work and 75% just getting to know each other more. He remembers little things I say, follows up if I watched shows he suggested, etc. At a conference with over 200 of our department's employees, he stayed with me the whole time even though other people were in our group. When we talk he looks into my eyes, he speaks softly, and we laugh a lot. When we sat next to eachother he sat close enough so we touched.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 June 2006): Well first, does he have a girlfriend? Second, make sure he is flirting and not just being nice. If he is single (the same thing happened to me and he decided after all the time we talked to finally mention that he was taken), and flirting then ask him out and see what he says!
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reader, Wendyg  +, writes (15 June 2006):
 Okay, well it could be that he likes you or it could be that he is generally a nice person, has got to know and feels comfortable around you. It could be banter on the phone and he likes chatting about things with you as you are easy to talk to. He could have a good memory for stuff and when you mention stuff hes like oh yeah did you see so so... when at the conference he probably had a better connection with you than the others as he had been having chats with you prevously and you had already got on well, and he felt more comfortable hanging out with someone he knew. That said, it could also be his way of getting to know you because he does want something more, its a difficult one as well when you work with people it can get complicated! The signs are that he likes you enough to found out more about you, but you have to be careful that hes not just being friendly and you end ruining a work relationship. The thing I would do, is the next time you start chatting, see if you cant find a place, or something like that that you both have in common, try and found out a place that he goes to, and say ive been there (even if you havent) and try to make it sound all light and airy and then say i was thinking of going again soon, would be good to maybe hook up, if hes hesitant you will know hes maybe not sure about taking things further, but if he jumps at the chance then is likely to be interested. At least that way you can make it sound innocent rather than full on and you can gracefully bow out if hes just being work friendly.
Good luck
Take care x
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reader, sibaan +, writes (15 June 2006):
 id say you got a good one girl.
you go girl!
he wants to kiss you, he wants to touch you, he wants you girl and id say go for it!!
just wait and see what happens if you flirt back maybe itll happen right before your eyes....
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