A
female
age
26-29,
*ilynicole
writes:Does my guy's bestfriend not like me? I've started seeing this guy and on our first date after we went to a movie and stuff then went to his bestfriends house. I talked to him a little but we were um, smoking some stuff so I was kind of out of it as was everyone else.Well last night I went over to my guys house around 11 and we hungout for a little bit then he asked me if it was ok if we went to his bff's house again, I said yeah sure. Then I go to the bathroom and when I got back he was like 'not to be mean but I told him I was with you and he said that I could only come over if it was just me' I was like 'okay...' then he said 'yeah he has to pack for a trip and he doesn't like it when random people come over'. He's a pretty popular guy and we go to different school, and I'm in no way popular or have a booming social life. I feel like all his friends don't like me, I'm going to a dinner with all of them tonight..how should I act? Was his bestfriend not wanting specifically my company? Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
reader, anonymous, writes (8 June 2011): Hi there, although this is not a direct answer to your question I believe that young people do need some guidance at times. If your boyfriend and his friend smoke any kind of 'stuff' you should not be hanging out with this kind of company. Try and have some confidence to find a few good friends with better standards - or it will only have you losing confidence hanging out with low esteem friends.
Aside from that smoking pot can create long term health affects including holes in your brain like cheese - no joke - there is plenty of research to support this.
A
reader, anonymous, writes (7 June 2011): he may act like this cause he could like you but doesn't want to hurt his friendship so he could be wanting to keep away from you so he can let these feelings go away.
as for the dinner just act normal like you usually would if they don't like you for who you are there is no point changing your bf likes you for who you are and thats all you should care about
...............................
A
female
reader, bluessy  +, writes (7 June 2011):
 There is really nothing I can advise you on right now. You are going out to dinner with he and his friends, so if you want to hear what I think of all this I am going to need part 2 of the story. I'm waiting to hear back from you regarding how the relationship is now. Was there a dinner with his friend's? Did he cancel? And, if there was a dinner, how has he been towards you during and after.
...............................
|
