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writes:Quick question, can a person be in love, but the other person not, or does it take both to be in love,if only one, is she or he, just stupid, to fall for a person, who, doesn't feel the same way, or is it the person's heart, is at fault Reply to this Question
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (1 January 2016):
 YES. A person can be in love without the other person returning the feelings. That is absolutely possible and I've both seen it, experienced it and talk about it several times. It's call unrequited love.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (1 January 2016):
 I think it takes two.
If I loved someone ,but that person didn't love me back, I would be "wasting" my feelings on a person who isn't worthy of them.
And I think one-sided love is more of a crush or infatuation than actual love.
If you don't LOVE someone who loves you, it's NOT your fault. We can't help who we love and whom we don't. Sometimes we have to reign in out feelings because the other person is off-limits or just not interested.
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