My feelings for long distance friend is affecting my feelings for my boyfriend

A female age 26-29, anonymous writes:

I have had a boyfriend for almost 2 years. 3-4 years ago i met an american man on holiday and ever since he went back to america we have spoken every day for the last 3-4 years just as friends. We have told eachother that we have feelings for one another and that if we lived close we would be together again, he knows that i have a boyfriend but recently we have been alot closer, i know we can't be together because he lives at the other side of the world, but i can't stay with my boyfriend if i feel like this about another man. what should i do???

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