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*icole90
writes:There is a man who I connected with very strongly the first time we met. We had so many things in common and confided in each other. We realized we lived 3 1/2 hours away from each other. He got my number and said he needed to take me on a date. Its been a month since we met. We have talked a little bit here and there. He is extremely busy with work, school, and the air force. Every weekend we both have had plans so we haven't been able to meet up. I was told if he wanted to see me enough he would make the effort and come down. Does it sound like he isn't interested? Reply to this Question
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reader, nicole90 +, writes (29 October 2009):
nicole90 is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thanks for your help. I actually asked him if I was wasting my time and this is what he said:
Nicole, I'm a pretty easy-going kind of guy. I pretty much take life as it comes at me. If I happen to be up there, then hanging out sounds like a good time. If you happen to be down here, then the same applies. But I'll come right out and tell you that I am probably the most relationship-phobic guy you have ever encountered in your entire life. (c; That kind of thing just doesn't come easily with me. Being direct, however, is one of my strongest points! (c:
He then said a long distance relationship scares him and if he is in my area he will call me to meet up.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 October 2009): I was in a similar situation not too long ago.
it sounds like he is interested, and although he likes you, he still finds it difficult to prioritise.
maybe ask him questions that make his feelings for you seem a bit more clear and focused.
be patient though,
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