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writes:this is a questions for the guysthis is a real question i need to ask do guys really like it more when a girl swallows and does it make a difference if we dont i ask this question because i want to please my hunny as much as i can so does it matter if we swallow or not ??
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 March 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI have asked my hunny he said either way it don't bother him, I don't rush off and spit it out or anything like that before we start, he gets me a towel and I dont stop until he tells me to so he is getting full pleasure, it's not like I stop half way through once he says you can stop now then I do what I have to do and don't make a big deal of it. I have swallowed before but it burns my throat, he has never complained and I've asked him before if I stopped too soon and he always says no you stop at the right time. So I'm sure I'm giving him what he wants, I just wondered if I could make it a little better by swallowing.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 March 2008): From a guys perspective, I personaly love it when my wife does, but it is more form the standpoint that she is submissive and I am more dominate. so it is more of a controll thing. But if she did not want to, it would not make it any less enjoyable. It is more the act then the finishing move...
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (17 March 2008):
 Turn it around, if he is giving oral to you, then surely you KNOW that it is important if he stays there for the duration? The classic problem of "finding the clit" is NOT because the clit itself is hard to find, but rather that it "moves" when the woman is getting near, the guy can no longer find it and gives up and the woman is left hanging.
Well to a lesser degree this is true during blowjobs. A girl who insists you come outside her mouth basically denies the best stimulation during climax.
So if you allow the guy to come in your mouth you are just making sure he feels the pleasure all the way, don't just stop it because he iscumming or even after the ejecalution stopped. The best ones are when she is willing to continue while you cool down.
This brings up your real question, swallow or not. Well, if you continue after he start ejaculating you can problably push most of it out of your mouth without stopping the blowjob. In this way it don't matter for the physical pleasure.
But... there is the mental stimulation as well. A girl swallowing your sperm is just an incredible turn on. As long as you don't gag on it, its just sexy. Again turn it around, if he instantly rushes wash his mouth out after cunningluss how does that make you feel vs a guy who licks up your juices?
We are a kinky species and the fact that we "shouldn't" do this makes it special. If you can stand the taste and texture, then your guy will most probably like it if you do it. Not because it feels better, but because it just is... well it just is...
If you can't stand it, well the fact you allow it in your mouth at all is enough. It is part of being really intimate together.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 March 2008): The actual swallowing or not wouldn't matter to me. But I would rather not see her spitting.
That's just my opinion, you might want to ask him though since he is the one you want to please.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 March 2008): Sorry, another girl answer. I wouldnt swallow and it never matters to my bloke, i think it is a personal thing and blokes are not going to think any less of you if you dont swallow.They just love the whole act.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 March 2008): I know I'm a girl, but I'm gonna throw my opinion in anyways.
My guy loves it when I swallow, somehow it seems more intimate and willing, so he'll probably love it if you do. After all, it's not acid. But if you don't, he shouldn't take offence or anything. Would HE want to swallow it?! :]
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