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writes:Hi again my loves :) I was just wondering, if it's at all odd that I am attracted to chubby lads? Every one I know, apart from one creeper who makes it an embarrassment, likes fit, slim people. Me? I personally like chubby guys. Not like huge, but just fairly overweight, and I was wondering of it was odd or uncommon?
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 July 2011): not out of the ordinary :)
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (9 July 2011):
 I have always been accused of being a "chubby chaser" (not a very nice term if you ask me, but okay.) - I too like heavier fellas. Funny that I ended up marrying a 180, kind of a stereotypically 'hot build' guy. And even funnier that he doesn't feel insecure when I'm next to that Brad Pitt lookalike, but gets a little nervous when I'm standing next to that Jim Belushi build guy.
So don't worry, sweet thing. You are totally normal. Solid guys are cute too - and besides, you'll always be the skinny one, they can throw you around without issue and their hugs are the greatest!
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (9 July 2011):
 I've always fancied "thick" men... guys with a bit of a belly... I like men with meat on their bones... I don't think that having a preference is weird at all.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (9 July 2011):
I don't think so. I think people (men and women) all have different types that they fancy. We aren't robots who have to all like a certain type. We're all different in that respect, and we all see things that we want in partners. You may even find that it's not the guy's build that actually attracts you, but a key part of his personality that is shared by other guys like him.
Don't worry about what type you fancy, so long as they treat you well and you're happy.
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reader, sammy1986 +, writes (9 July 2011):
everyone has a personal preference this is yours i wouldnt worry everyone is diffrent i personally go for toned muscly men but i have a friend who goes for chubby men perfectly normal
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 July 2011): Beauty is in the eye of the beholder; if you find heavier built guys attractive then go for it, who cares what anyone else thinks? I say good for you for going against social norms and being unashamed to like what you like! :)
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