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writes:I had sex for the first time last year but haven't seen then because it was a holiday thing, but now i'm with this lad and just wanted to know if it hurts for the second time. it didnt really hurt me the first time that much but i bleed, does me not having sex for a year make it more painful?Please help! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 October 2007): Well you waited a year and yeah it will hurt at first and then you will just enjoy the pleasure u get it is amazing i just want to do it all the time yeah last year i had sex 2 but i did it the second time and it was yeah so good so go for it!!
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reader, sarahlouise +, writes (24 October 2007):
hiya chick well i will be honest sex the second time does hurt. make sure you feel that you really want to have sex again with this person. havein sex the second time did hurt me buti did not bleed a second time.if you are going to go ahead with it then make sure it is what u realy want and that you are totally relaxed and not tense. it stopped hurtin me the 4th or 5th time but have a different partner it was hurtin due to him being larger than the last just be safe and relax.dnt fell pressured chick sarahlouise xx
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reader, Yuna~  +, writes (24 October 2007):
 Oh, I can totally relate to that.
My boyfriend is British and I'm Asian. Size is definitely different between the two races. He was my first man. It hurted me very much the first few times. Then it was fine after that. He went away for 3 months and when he returned, it took us over a week so he wouldn't hurt me. I guess things like that do happen. I hope my experience will give you an idea.
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reader, rcn  +, writes (24 October 2007):
 It hurts all the time. (the act its self the pain may ease) Let me tell you what I mean, just for your own insight and since I can't seem to answer with just "yes" or "no". You need to watch how long you're with someone before giving into sex. Girls attach actual emotion with sex, so if you give sex and the relationship doesn't last and go the way you were hoping, the pain of the break up is much greater than if you didn't have sex during it.
Anyway, take care, and a lot of 4 play will ease the discomfort for the second time.
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