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sundani
writes:My love life is not exciting at all,all relationships i have been involved they were nothing but heart breaking.I realized that that i was meant to love or dating for that matter.I will never love again.You give your all to your partner,but sometimes its not worth it you end up getting hurt.Giving him all your love its like selling your soul to the devil.it is unforgettable to be taken advantage by the one whom you see as a life partner.All the guys i have dated impregnated other women,this made me feel so unimportant,actually its quite embarrasing and disturbing because some people will think I'm the one with a problem.If I'm not ready to get intimate with either of them doesnt give them any right to go and get it outside.This proves that they dont love you but they are just after sex,after they get what they want,they will just drop you just like some garbage.If there is love they will patient and understanding where you coming from.If you are not ready for sex dont do it because you think you will lose your boyfriend,if he pressurize you must realize that this person doesnt care about your feelings all he wants is to get into your pants.Ladies wake up and smell the coffee,there is nothing like love in this world.Love to men its only a game mind they are heartless and selfish.They dont care about our feelings.Giving a guy all your heart,soul,mind is risking your life.He will take control of your life because you already opened the door for him.Dont be blinded by love because you end up breaking your heart into pieces.To be alone is better than being with someone who will end up hurting you for life.Their internal experience has nothing to do with you,nor yours with them?This shatters the illusion of two co-dependent beings in a relationship where each completes other,giving it apparent purpose,meaning and worth.Dont deceive yourself and become more secure,or participate within the definition of love.Instead of seeing,realizing and understanding that you are de-stabilizing,unsecuring and making yourself unsafe in this world by giving yourself away by experiencing love.Stop falling in love because love doesnt exist on this planet.It is just a myth.Dont let your emotions take over your judgement.'There is never a time or place for love.It happens accidentally,in a heartbeat,in a single flashing,throbbing moment'says Sarah Dessen.'Conclusively it is unbelievable how fast people can change.One day you mean everything.The next day,you dont exist anymore just like love .Do you really believe in love?
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 May 2016): I'm sorry you apparently got badly burned. You are young and I hope that you eventually find somebody worthy of your trust and love.
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reader, followtheblackrabbit  +, writes (27 April 2016):
 I do believe in love. But, I don't believe in the fairy-tale idea anymore. The thing is: love comes with HUGE risk. I no longer believe in loving freely. I believe that a man should earn my love like I should earn his. When my heart first got broken, I said: never again! It happened two more times. I did try to not care, to be the b**ch that was ice-cold. But, that's not me. And anyway, why should I let a moronic man change me for the worse? I'm more careful, I'm not as naive. I don't believe in the perfect prince. I come with flaws and I expect men do too as well. It sounds like you have had many heartbreaks and I'm sorry for that. I sense a lot of that hurt in your write. Listen, you were right not to give in to the demands of men who just want one thing from you! Be happy that they went off and got it elsewhere. What does that mean for you? You dodged several bullets. You do not settle! They stepped out, their loss! Here's my advice, become long-time friends first with the next man who interests you. Don't rush into dating or boyfriend/girlfriend titles. Friendship is the secret, that is what most often leads to honest love. Do I sometimes regret meeting the men who broke my heart? Yes. But they taught me valuable lessons. I take comfort in that.
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