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writes:My boyfriend and i have been together for so long, we met over the internet at the beginning of 2008 and we met face to face on 14th august 2009. we have been through so much. we have so many memories. we go different places, especially because he lives in Stamford and i live in Ipswich so we both experience and go different places all the time, and go to the same places like the cinema. we have had some troubles during our relationship but i think this is the toughest baddest one yet. i am only 15 and he has now only turned 18. he wants to go out clubbing now as hes started and hes added a load of girls on facebook. I only see him on weekends as i live far away, so every Saturday he will want to go out. i only want him to every other weekend so he can spend a weekend at mine as well but he wont he wants to go every weekend. do you think that its just because hes only just starting to party? hes going to react this way were he wants to go out every weekend but will if fade to just every other weekend after a while as it will become a usual thing to him so he wont wanna do it as much he says he wants me and him to be together forever and work out and he says the only reason he would ever leave me is if he hurts me so im trying to be strong and not show him how hurt i am otherwise he will leave me because he don't want me to get hurt anymore what should i do? I'm so low and can't eat because im so upset and always want to cry because everywhere i go it reminds me of him because we have a funny memories together that i just dont want that to end because were doing more and more every weekend but now partying is in the way hes going to meet girls and not want me, i just don't want him to leave me but the real question i want to know is... is it always going to be this way? will he always want to party every weekend? or will he just go every other weekend? Please help me and answer anything you can i dont wanna feel like this anymore i want him back we was a perfect couple i dont wanna lose him so please dont tell me to just leave him because i'm not. i love him too much! ive already been taking stress pills and stuff from worrying hes going to cheat or leave me please help! btw, when its going good its going really really good like amazing, but when we argu or have a problem, its most of the time, quite bad :( thank you so much for reading xxx
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reader, lou_xx  +, writes (27 August 2010):
I believe it is just because he is of that age where he can go and enjoy himself at the weekends! He is a young guy and even if he did meet other girls, if he truly loves you he would not cheat on you.
Maybe you should tell him the effect this is having on you? Just tell him that you miss spending time with him and you should arrange a weekend together.
Keeping this from him is not healthy for you obviously, and its not healthy for your relationship. You have to be open with him. Theres no reason why he should dump you, it would be a silly mistake on his behalf.
When you become 18 and experience the nightlife you might understand how he feels! Until then i feel you should be open with him and let him know how much you miss him :)
hope this was helpful xxxxx
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