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Does he want to date me or just have sex?

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Question - (23 May 2012) 5 Answers - (Newest, 24 May 2012)
A female Nigeria age 41-50, anonymous writes:

i am a lady and i am 28 years, i have a male friend that iam going out with. were are in to this relationship just 3weeks now and he is asking me of sex and he said he want me too be his wife but i dont known what too do, should i go on with him or ask him too go because think what he want is sex not the relationship please help me,my name is ego

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (24 May 2012):

So_Very_Confused agony aunttell him if he wants to marry you that badly he can wait for sex till after you get married.

he just wants sex and knows this is how to get you to put out.

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A male reader, Serpico United States +, writes (24 May 2012):

TELLING you he is going to marry you and MARRYING you are two extremely different things.

Next time he says it - tell him "ok - lets go do it today!"

In every culture and language - talk is cheap. Never listen to what people SAY, watch what they DO.

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A male reader, Sageoldguy1465 United States +, writes (23 May 2012):

Sageoldguy1465 agony auntGuys will say ANYTHING to get a woman to put out!!!! YOU are on the receiving end of "anything" at the moment... and must determine if this guy is really sincere.....

Good luck....

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A male reader, N91 United Kingdom +, writes (23 May 2012):

N91 agony auntIf he's telling you that he wants to marry you, I don't think it sounds like he's just in it for sex. If you want to find out for sure, make him wait for it, just date him for about 2-3 months or as long as you feel like until you think he's being genuine and wants a relationship and not just sex.

If he can't wait as long as you need to, then his interest will decline and it'll be obvious that he just wanted to use you.

Hope this helps.

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A female reader, AuntyAlexxmo United Kingdom +, writes (23 May 2012):

AuntyAlexxmo agony auntIt sounds like he just wants to have sex on the side of his marriage and not get causght.

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