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Thing went well during a date but he doesn't initiate things.

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Question - (23 May 2012) 2 Answers - (Newest, 24 May 2012)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I've been dating this guy for a month, I felt chemistry between us the very first time we met and he asked for my number and I asked him out first.

I felt nervous around him, I always do, so I was a bit hesitated to have physical contact. Anyway on date three, he started holding my hands and gave me a peck on lip, which is really sweet :). Then things get more spicy on our next hangouts, we ended up making out passionately and it was really nice....but! I really want to know ask if he is taking this seriously but I'm afraid it will ruin things if I do.

After each date, there is no call or text so I want to know when will we meet up again so I usually initiate it. I felt like he tends to ask me out in last mins and It sounds like plan b for me :( or maybe he just likes it casual. That really bothers me, and he tried to kiss me all the time during a date, I wonder if he really likes me and that's the way he shows it or he's only physical attracted by me.

What do you think? He's sweet to me in person but he doesn't call or contact me first, love or lust :(?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (24 May 2012):

You should probably show less interest in him, if he has a thing for you, he will start to do the right thing?

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A male reader, Sageoldguy1465 United States +, writes (23 May 2012):

Sageoldguy1465 agony auntAs long as YOU initiate contact he will KNOW that he has you ON THE HOOK.... and it's only a small step from "on the hook" to "putting out for him...."

Good luck.....

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