Does He Want The Relationship Back - Or Just Sex?

A female age 51-59, anonymous writes:

Hi all, I was seeing this guy for a while, and things were going great, then we feel out, and he finished it. I ignored his calls, and he kept on calling me - he called 15 times in four days, so in the end I picked the phone up.He was saying he still wants a freindship, and has kept saying that as he wants to see how things go with us,and see what I am like and then last night he called, and I got annoyed, as I want a relationship,( the last tow times he came over we had sex too - but he didnt stay over) and I told him I was upset. We then exchanged angry texts, so in the end I said let's at least leave it in peace, and be freinds, and he said - 'Just freinds ? that's good', then we carried on texting freindly tetxs, then he said at 10pm at night he was 'very hot' and I made a joke saying I was 'very hot ' too, then he texted saying he was coming over, and I said no, because I don;t have sex with my freinds, and then when I called him this morning, he woud not pick up , or return my messages, so I got very upset, and told him that he seems not even to want the freindship, and that I will need to end it all, and he emailed me some angry emails. I am now regretting it a bit, as I am not sure if he was just coming over for sex? or if he wanted to pick the relastionship back up? I do not know what to do now, as it seems odd that we had a relationhip before, and now he is reversing things. I mean why woud he have kept on and on calling if it was just for sex? What do you guys think? Should I text him agin in a week or two? what is he playing at? Thanks :o)

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