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anonymous
writes:Hi everyone me and this guy have been seeing one another since march last year well I think were more fwbs than a proper couple even though I do want to be with him properly the last week he came round mine drunk n I heard him whisper he loved me and he calls me names like babe and his baby and aks me who's girl I am do you think he wants more with me
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2012): As you have started by giving him sex without the headache of a commited relationship, i doubt very much there being anything more as far as he's concerned. Men respect women who demand respect and a relationship before giving them sex. It may sound old fashioned and unliberating to you, but generaly speaking, its the truth.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2012): The best way to find out is to tell him no relationship,no sex. Fwb style set ups dont tend to win mens felings. They have girlfriends for that.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2012): He might do. Dont build your hopes up though, as he's probably keeping you sweet so you will carry on giving him sex without the chores. He's got it all on a plate so i doubt he'll want to change that.
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reader, dougbcoll  +, writes (3 January 2012):
 (he will not buy the cow as long as he is getting free milk) the ( FWB ) someone always comes out a loser. a man can tell a woman anything she wants to hear ,especially if he is getting what he wants . friends with benefits another word for : using and being used, NO commitment involved .
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2012): Until you have "the talk" you're just FWB's. I tell everyone I love them and call my female friends babe and stuff when I'm drunk.
Until he says so, sober and in a "what are we" talk. You're just FWB's.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI didn't say he is always drunk it is the first time I have seen him drunk since I met him
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (3 January 2012):
 Knock off the sex and see if he still comes around.
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female
reader, thinkb4  +, writes (3 January 2012):
Some say a drunk mans words are a sober mans thoughts. I am not convinced it is true myself. No one here can answer you really, only he can tell you (when he is sober). Personally I believe if you give a man sex without being in a relationship with him, that is all they will ever want you for. Who knows, he just may defy the odds?
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2012): I wouldnt bank on it. Fwb is not a mans idea of a potential partner. They should change the term fwb to bwor (benefits without respect, because in 99.9% of cases,thats exactly what it is.
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