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Does he want more from me?

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Question - (24 March 2009) 5 Answers - (Newest, 25 March 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

My boyfriend just fingered me and it was really good. I just want to know will he want more now and want to have sex? I mean we have talked about how we are going to want a little bit but he is always all over me and was just wanting to know if he is going to want more. Hope you can help

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A female reader, iSmil3y United States +, writes (25 March 2009):

He'll for sure, want more. He's a teenager, all teenage boys, want more. But if he honestly respects you, he'll wait until You're ready to do more. You're still young, just wait. The time will come and you'll know when you're ready. Until then, If he tries to get you to do anything you don't feel comfortable doing, don't be afraid to say No.

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A female reader, jessica04 United States +, writes (24 March 2009):

jessica04 agony auntWell, yes, it would be natural for him to want more. I even assume that on some level you want more. But just because he might want, it doesn't mean he must get it. And if he ever pressures you and makes you feel like you must have sex in order to keep him around, then dump him. You are right to wait and talk about it first. Just be safe and make sure that whatever you do, you're having fun. Don't do anything that you are not comfortable with.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (24 March 2009):

You're too young to be getting fingered. He's a teenage boy, yes he will want more. Say NO.

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A male reader, Moviefan United States +, writes (24 March 2009):

Moviefan agony auntHe wants more, hes a guy. At his age that's one of the few things on his mind 24/7. Just don't let him, if he tries push him away and tell him no, and don't show weakness when you do it because he will keep pushing if you do.

Be strong, just dont let anything bad happy good luck.

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (24 March 2009):

Of course he will WANT more.

He is a teenage boy and their hormones mean that they want nothing but sex all the time.

HOWEVER, luckily for you, he also has a brain and he knows that sex is a bad idea and he knows not to push you or do anything like that as you'd dump his arse so fast.

And hopefully he likes having you around too much to risk that.

He knows you are not ready so just keep it to fingering and had jobs for a good long while till you both get older.

Good Luck!! xx

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