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anonymous
writes:Ok Me and my ex, are always off again on again, but he has a new girlfiend and I a new boyfriend. But he always calls every week, then when I talk about these other girls, he gets upset, and say he didn't call to talk about them... Why does he keep in constant contact??? Do he want me back, or just can't stand to see me with someone else. HELLLLLPPPPP!!
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reader, Collaroy  +, writes (5 October 2007):
 yep, ditto with the other posters.He's keeping you as his plan B. In other words, if his current relationship goes to hell, he'll simply be on the phone to you .Change your number and forget him. You have a new boyfriend whats the point in maintaining a relationship with this guy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 October 2007): He's keeping his options open!
If this latest one of his turns to ratshit, and you're free (or not) he'll have a 'finger in your pie', so to speak.
Phil
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 October 2007): Hi,
It is hard to say from a weekly phone call if he wants you back, some guys are players, and they like to keep a back up in case another girl ditches them...I'd say good riddance if you have found someone who wants to be your boyfriend, who cares if this guy can't stand to see you with someone else, he missed his chance by being so on again off again with you. Those kind of on again off again relationships are not very healthy.....so I'd move on and cut all contact with him, especially if his calls are messing with your head, which it sounds like they are.
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