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female
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36-40,
*epangue1988
writes:i had known this guy for 4 months now. It all started during our 3 month volunteer duty. At first, i find him to be someone so quiet, serious and mysterious. People on the place where we both volunteered tried to pair and tease us. Soon we started exchanging our numbers and texts each other almost everyday. We eat together during lunch, he usually give me a helping hand when i get a problem with my workload and so do i. We go on a date or watch movie once in a while, sometimes he is the one who invites and so do i. We hold hands when we are together even with our friends around, when im sleepy, he usually let me sleep on his shoulders.He told he nver had a girlfriend ever since but then he had a couple of flings whom he had sex with, he had a couple of girls before but they never had an actual gf/bf title. He also knows that im a virgin and im not into sex unless i gt married.He also knows i dont fall in love fast. I had shared to him before about me running away when i sense that the guy likes me. Until the day,we end up our volunteer duty, we still go out once in a while, but then he don't text me as often as he does before, he usually spend his time playing DOTA, and to add it all up he never confronted me about being in a relationship with him.. does he want me to be his gf or what? or does he want no strings attached?
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reader, k_c100  +, writes (24 October 2011):
 To be honest it isnt clear what he wants. The fact that he has stopped texting as much indicates he has lost interest, so perhaps when he realised you are not just going to be an easy girl to get into bed he backed off.
It sounds like he likes to have flings with girls rather than settle down, so chances are he is not going to be looking for a girlfriend, and if he was he would have told you by now.
Probably best to forget about him and move on, there are plenty more men out there!
I hope this helps and good luck!
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