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male
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Okay. So, I've known a (female) friend of mine for quite some time now. Perhaps as much as four years. We've been friends, sure not much of a problem there. But nowadays, things seem to be getting stuck in a haze. She affectionately calls me 'nii-sama' which is Japanese for 'big brother'. She enjoyed anime and manga for a long time and through that we pretty much met up in the first place. She hugs me like a lot, says random stuff like how I should move in with her even though she lives with her parents. She also used to have a boyfriend, a guy I happen to know as well, and from time to time during the initial stages I heard stories of how she randomly compared him to me or noticed similiarities between him and me. I never really paid attention to it, having a relationship myself during those days. But the most frustrating thing about her is that she comes and goes as she simply pleases. Meaning that she doesn't always enter my text messages, comes online on IM instances or simply talks to me through an offline status. But she also keeps things from me with the 'excuse' -- I don't want to call it like that but it is the first word that pops into my head that hits home close enough -- that she doesn't want me to get worried or create a fuss about it.What upsets me that I just can't pinpoint her behaviour anymore. I don't know what her problem is and whenever I try to ask, she dodges the question or ignores it.
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