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writes:okay i have a great realtionship with my girlfriend, but the problem is cuddling. she always want me to cuddle up to her before falling asleep, and i love it aswell. but we can never seem to find a comfortable position. any advice of good positions please help thanks. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 October 2007): It appears that most of the posters are describing variations of the spoons position, which is a great one. The only problem is finding a comfortable place for the arm that is underneath the person that is behind. The one described by dapone seems great (have to try that). We use a variation of that where my arm is under her pillow. That relieves the pressure on my arm. Another one that my wife and I have used for years is for me to lay on my back and she places her head on my chest, just below my collar bone and overlapping on my arm. There is only one problem. One time, many years ago, we slept in that position for about 5 hours and it hurt to move my arm for a couple of days after.
OK, we just jumped into bed (with our clothes on) to try the dapone variation. It seems like it will work. I can hold her right one with my left arm, her left one with my right arm and also lick her ear. Her ear is her number 1 erogenous area. We had to jump out of bed because she was getting turned on. Thanks, dapone.
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reader, Basschick  +, writes (26 October 2007):
 Ever heard of the term "spooning"? You put your back to his check and snuggle up to each other, then he wraps one arm around you and you fall asleep all cozy-like. Now, granted you probably won't stay in that position all night, but that's okay. It's the best way for me to fall asleep, like a little slice of heaven.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 October 2007): Having been in a 'cold' marriage for years that ended in divorce it was a revelation when my new boyfriend wanted to cuddle in bed. Because I wasn't used to it I was a bit claustrophic to start with so we held hands and fell asleep or just made sure a bit of our bodies touched. This got me used to it. Now I find I love his arm loosely over me and my back kind of fits into his chest as we lie on our sides curled up this makes me feel secure without being squashed.
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reader, dapone 1 +, writes (26 October 2007):
 hi.What a wonderful thing to hear people who love to cuddle each other, you both must have a wonderful relationship, i used to love doing the same years ago and found it to be trial and error situation, my girl friend laid with her back to me ,i cuddled up to her back, then when she laid her head on the pillow i put my arm through the gap between her head and pillow,up to elbow joint,bend arm downwards holding her chest, then put other arm around her waist, this may take a while to get used to but it is one way.you can also lay together put one arm in a relaxed position in front of your body, and put other arm around her waist, if these suggestions do not work them i an afraid you will have to keep trying different positions until you find the right one for you both,Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 October 2007): I find that the most comfortable position to fall asleep in when your cuddling is if she lays in front of you with her back to you and you put your arm around her. Or you can do it vice-versa with your back to hers.
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