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writes:After our second date i-mailed him the next day saying how much i had a good time and i hope w can meet up again soo, he replied the next day and said he hope we can meet up sometime again and when am i available. He then wenton saying how he had a busy few months ahead going on tour folling his fav team, and how he was due a summer holliday as well. I felt a bit as if he was tring to say he's now too busy or could it have been a possible goodbye? I replied to his e-mail saying how i will be spending my summer with my son and lucky for some, i said i wasn't sure when i would be available but i will let him know and if we don't see each other before he goes away then have fun and bring back a momento. I text him yesterday asking when will he be leaving , he replied teling me where he was going but he didn't tell me when. Its now day 3 and he still hasn't replied to my e-mail. Do you think he might think iam not interested and maybe he thaught that was a goodbye from me? ??
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (10 August 2007):
 I agree with duskyrowe. He knows you are interested, but is telling you he isn't, since he is going away for a long time, and doesn't want you to wait for him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 August 2007): Its not that he thinks you are not interested. If a guy wants to pursue you, he will, no matter what. One time, I had a guy calling me for six months asking me out before I went out with him. Guys will insist and call and try and try if they really want to, no matter how you react.
And if that is not the case with him, then maybe you should just move on. But don't beat your self up. You didn't do anything wrong. He just might not be that interested.
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reader, duskyrowe +, writes (9 August 2007):
 So what are you gonna do while he is out for god knows how long following his favourite team? Twiddle your thumbs? Sorry to sound so blunt, but what he is trying to tell you is, Don't hold your breath waiting around for me, he certainly not gonna pine over you while he is having fun.
It seems he is calling the shots here,go out and have some fun of your own. You may meet a nice guy with more availability,and would want to spend quality times with you.
Good luck and take care hun x
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