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anonymous
writes:HI I will try to keep this short. I met a boy about a month ago and instantly fell for him. He is so good looking and funny aand luckily he liked me too. We met up a few times and each time we couldnt keep our hands off each other - there was a definite attraction between us. But we get on great too and do coupley things like go for walks and stuff. But then the other day I found out that he told my friend there was nothing goin on between us - I know we are not yet an item but I thought that we were "seeing" each other? Anyway, I havent mentioned it to him as I dont wanna freak him out and seem like a bunny boiler already. But theres something else that gets to me - he never rings when he says he will and doesnt really text me either. I know hes a busy person and stuff but it doesnt take 2 minutes to tap someone a text message. But in the past I have been really hurt by a couple of guys and Im wondering whether its all down to me how I feel because Im so scared of getting hurt again or whether he actually doesnt like me - how would I know? I really start to feel down when the day goes by and I havent heard from him - I just cant relax. So what should I do? Does he like me or am I just being over paranoid and worrying too much? And if so how can I be more relaxed and laid back?
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 August 2007): No you're not being paranoid. He likes you but maybe not in the way that you like him. He might just want a physical relationship with no attachments. But you don't want that. You want to have a real relationship. If a guy doesn't call when he says he will, that's kind of a bad sign. When a guy really likes you he will call when he says he's going to and he'll even call unexpectedly, just to say hi, hear your voice, tell you he's thinking of you. Guys don't usually play games. So take how he is acting to literally mean how he feels.If I were you I personally would not take him too seriously and quit worrying and try to move on. But if you want to ask him how he feels about you, you could. But that probalby still won't change anything.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 August 2007): The thing is is that guys aren't very smart when it comes to communicating their feelings.. honestly guys you aren't! It's unfortunate that he is putting you in such a vulnerable state.. he is doing this because he can; look at you.. you are worrying abut a guy who is def. not worth your time! I don't even have to meet you to tell you that you deserve better than this ass. Don't settle ...especially for this kind of man or boy I should say. If he isn't calling you or contacting you in any way than he is just not that into you and its as simple as that but unfortunately women tend to mix their emotions into these sorts of things too soon and too often. I know its hard because you like him but if he truly likes you he knows your number.. ya know ? So let him come to you or go for someone else who is worth your time.
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