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writes:My boyfriend and i have been dating for 4 years and living together for 3 years. But at the moment i am unemloyed and we fight about it a lot, he calls me useless and say i do nothing I have apllied for work in 7 different jobs, he still fights with me, what should i do and does he still want me or does he use the work as an excuse not to be with me? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 June 2008): I am going through the same exact thing right now with my boyfriend. I was employed a month ago I got layed off. I live in GA but I was visiting family in PA for the past 2 weeks. It is very hard for me to get a job in GA since my family is in PA and I feel that he should be lucky that I even moved soo far away from my family to be near his. Which I still keep in touch obviously with my family I am here now visiting. He does tell me he wants to get married and have children and all of that he just wants me to get a job while I am even here, since I will be here for the summer, which is a good way to go and I have been looking for jobs for the past week or so. Anyways he broke up with my 3 in the morning today b/c of all of this. I know what you are going through. I say just get a job and work on you and worry about you only right now then see how things go.
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reader, dearkelja  +, writes (2 February 2008):
 If somebody called me useless I'd be deciding whether or not I wanted to be with them. So you don't have a job, you are actively trying to get a job. That is not useless. He doesn't sound very supportive to me and if he gets wigged out and demeans you over this just think what rocks are coming when things really go wrong.
Get a job, get on your feet and then when you are stronger, think about whether or not you want to stay in this relationship. Make your decision when you are stronger.
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