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female
age
30-35,
*unandstars
writes:I was with this guy for 2 years, but he broke up with me after a difficult few months of arguments in September. We had an absolutely fabulous relationship up until the last few months. He got with another girl fairly soon after, but she recently broke up with him for an unknown reason. We stayed fairly close friends for the time he was with the other girl, despite me being extremely angry with him for getting with her so soon. A few days after they broke up, I rang him (for some advice about this guy who is hitting on me who I don't like back) because I didn't have any texts left, we got talking and he told me about the break up. I was the first person he told and he started to confide in me, expressing his feelings, which means a lot. At the end of the call he thanked me and said I'm a brilliant friend because he knows how difficult it is for me to talk to him about this other girl, as I have been extremely upset about the whole thing for the last few months. For the last few days we have been texting and calling each other every day. Do you think this is a sign that we could get back together in the future? I have spent the last few months sorting out the personal issues with myself like my tendency to argue, I have generally become a better person and I think he is aware of this. He is completely aware that I still have feelings for him, do you think I have a chance to get him back?
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 December 2011): Hey, I'm not sure if this is enough to warrant that he wants to get back, he might just see you as a friend, he might see you as more - you may have to be brave here and ask him, if he says he just wants to be friends, be cool and respect his decision. If not,then you'll get back what you want. You won't know until you ask, but whatever the outcome, treat him and yourself with respect!
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